Leaving social media behind

This weekend I watched "The Social Dilemma" and it convinced me that social media is not the human or the humane way to interact with people. I am leaving Facebook and Twitter behind. My life before the internet was quite fulfilling and I know it will be fulfilling when I decide where my attention goes. 

Humanity must stay focused on its humanity. Is a blog that much better? I hope so and I think so because it takes a few moment of quiet and solitude and thinking to write and to read. Writing is thinking, I am fond of telling students. Well, it's time to put that into practice and to "resurrect" my blog and see where it takes me. Come along with me.

Attention

I am tired of being expected to trust, when I have good reason not to.

I am tired of begging, when I have already said what I would like.

I am tired of waiting, when you have said you will give it. And then don’t. And don’t. And don’t.

I am tired of giving, when you don’t act like you want it.

I am worth more than this

Knight, knight, knight
on a white horse
fixing everything
but me
but himself

I am worth more than this

Not a substitute
Not a replacement
Not a role
Not something to occupy
the place of someone or something else

I am worth more than this

I am not a dish rag
to be put aside
when something more
interesting, shiny
comes along

I am worth more than this

I don't know if I am who you think I am
I want to be for you no longer
and I want you to know my value to you

[I wrote this in 2015.]

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I am a professor and a human being.

I am a professor and a human being.

I am not my email address, I am not D2L, and I am not my cell phone. I am not instant messaging.

I am not hardware or software, and I am not a machine, always “on” and ready to reply. I will not let the devices of today dictate my behavior.

I am a human being.

I make time for students and work. I give thoughtful consideration to a student’s concern in a timely manner which means, when the time is right. I give thoughtful consideration to the work that crosses my desk.

I give thoughtful consideration to ideas. Ideas, questions, and rational thinking are worth my time. I make time for ideas. I read and think about them. I write and think about them. I revise and think about them. I discuss and think about them.

Make it a hybrid

I just switched one of my spring classes from a regular lecture course to a hybrid that will meet every other week in the classroom and online. Why? In the futile hopes that hybrid will attract more students, because history courses are interchangeable from a certain point of view. 

Solitude

Roles in life

complete with scripts

Be a man

Be a woman

Follow the script

Imagine understanding

Imagine connection

when the script of another

resembles one's own

The script reinforces

connections

Connections reinforce

the scripts

A few accept solitude

A few ask why

and disrupt the circle

and cause discomfort